So You Want To Be A Sugar Baby?

So you're thinking about entering this alternative lifestyle. You're sort of sure of what you want, not entirely certain what to expect, and only a little bit clear on the entire picture. We want you to ask yourself -

Do you have what it takes to be a sugar baby?

It takes a certain type of person to be able to live this lifestyle. 

It isn’t for everyone and it surely isn’t to be taken lightly. It takes a girl with confidence, who’s driven, intelligent, who loves life, and who doesn’t cause drama. One must also realize that because many people don’t understand this lifestyle it’s like living life with a secret, but this of course depends on what category of people your friends fall into. If your friends are open minded you have a better chance at telling them without feeling judged which brings up a good point that a sugar baby must be open minded. A sugar daddy isn’t going to fully support you most likely unless  a) you are extremely lucky b) you move close to him or live with him  c) see him multiple times a week. However, even without his full support you can still get a lot of financial assistance, fun dates, spa time, clothes etc to help you get ahead in life. While some might morally be opposed to being sugar babies I find it empowering that for once I get to be with a great handsome generous man and not a young unmotivated loser who only wants to **** me.

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NW is right about the personality traits of a good sugar baby, knowing that sugar should be supplemental and not be a support, and making choices to empower yourself. I want to add that it  also takes a woman or man who’s smart and makes choices to keep themselves safe above all - trust us when we say this! One of the major concerns on the site is being a fly-in sugar baby. It’s much more dangerous to go to a place where you don’t have many contacts and can’t turn to anyone for help if things go sour. A smart sugar baby always trusts his/her instinct - if something is too good to be true, it usually is. If something gives you pause, then listen to that inner voice that tells you that you might be dealing with insincerity. This lifestyle is for those who understand that they need to live with their eyes wide open - sometimes it takes work for you to find someone viable, and then it takes time to build trust.

Be safe, above all, and never make decisions based on naivette.

That’s all for this blog post - stay sweet out there, babies!

xoxo

The Girls Next Door