SafeZONE Part II

Here’s part two to our guide on how to be smart, savvy, and safe Sugar Baby in this day and age. People really caution against this all day every day but since Candy is having her first fly-out meet and greet, these rules are tips for the babies who take the leap into stepping into the SDs turf.

As usual, we welcome all comments and input, and any tips that intelligent Sugar Babies and Daddies want to share with us on how to remain safe. ^_^

Hey all! It’s Candy (with approval from NW of course =P) This is not at all comprehensive list but we do believe we covered a lot of the basics.

1) If you have his real information (note: if he didn’t trust you enough to give you full disclosure, a fly-out is a TERRIBLE idea), people search him. Do all sorts of searches on him. tinseye is a great website to reverse search an image so you can see if he’s fake and pulled it off google etc.

2) Check out his/her local sex offenders list. Sounds crazy? Maybe but better safe than sorry. You really need to know if you’re dealing with something badder than you can handle. This is part and parcel of researching your Sugar Daddy or Sugar Momma.

3) Get your confirmation tickets ahead of time. Two words for you, sugars:
ROUND. TRIP.
If it’s not roundtrip, you’re entering really murky waters. There are only two possible reasons for an open-ended trip - you decided so, or s/he decided so. We really tend to caution each other against first meets that are more than a day (mine is actually 2 days, shame on me!) but if he hasn’t bought both the going and the coming... do not do it.

4) Get confirmation tickets for hotel. DO NOT STAY AT HIS HOME. If he’s a real gentleman, he will totally understand where you’re coming from. Really HONESTLY... do not stay at his home.
It’s really tricky to ask, trust me (this is CC talking) I totally understand. If you trust him enough to give him your information to buy tickets, then you should trust him enough when he says that you’ll both buy tickets when you get there?
This is my situation.
You have to find a really cute but non abrupt way to ask him to buy everything ahead of time. That way you have information on hand.

5) Tell someone. Please please make sure you tell someone where you’re going. If you don’t have someone you trust, then make friends with people on your blogs. Do not ever leave your city without informing at least one person of your whereabouts. I have a wide group so nine people  know where I’m going - I fwded them my itinerary, all the information I have on my SD everything - because I want to be safe.
You don’t have to tell as many people as I did but tell someone!

5) Be prepared. A smart sugar baby will have enough money to take him/herself back home. Take extra cash with you just in case things head for the worst.
These are rules and tips that all SBs who want to stay safe and be smart can use, regardless of whether they are in-town or non-local.

That’s all for this blog post - stay sweet out there, babies!

xoxo

The Girls Next Door